Remember the Good!

              Although serving food has its many downs, it does indeed have its fair share of ups. After all, why would we do it if it was pure torture. So, another survivor tip to remember while being a server in the food industry is that you are not alone! Your coworkers are your allies and your friends. Maybe not all of them ( of course ) but, it is helpful to find at least one or two people to be friendly with. It makes the job that much more fulfilling. Even if a table makes you feel like crap, you and your friends can talk shit and you can all scoff together and discuss it when they leave the table. And of course, if/when you get a shitty tip you can all reflect on what you learned from that experience, how you can do better next time and of course, if you in fact did your job right, then you all can reflect on how rude those people are for not leaving anything.                       

              A great, fun and easy way to survive as a server is to try and enjoy the people around you. Managers, coworkers, people in the kitchen and bussers alike. Now, it is possible to be in an environment where the managers all suck, don't care and lack enthusiasm. Just as it is possible that you have coworkers who totally suck. My advice to you in this situation is: DO NOT WORK THERE. You do not need that kind of negativity in your life anyway. If the customers give you shit and your coworkers suck that leaves you unhappy and miserable while you're clocked it. But, let's say the guests give you shit and your coworkers have your back… it's not so bad then. You can share a good laugh in between taking orders, running food and refilling waters. So remember, it is not all bad to be in the serving industry. There are plenty of opportunities to make new friends, make good money and make great experiences. All you have to do is have a positive outlook and keep in mind that your coworkers are your friends! They are totally there working their ass off to pay their bills just like you! You can all laugh and suffer together. There is no reason to be miserable in the work place! Especially when you are bringing people the joy of eating! :)